​All Resources are active links for your convenience!
Local Hospitals, Birthing Centers & Midwives:
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Bailey Medical Center ~ Owasso ~ 918-376-8000
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St. John Hospital ~ Owasso ~ 918-274-9786
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Hilcrest Medical Center ~ Tulsa ~ 918-294-4000
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St. Fransis ~ Tulsa ~ 918-307-6000
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Southcrest Hospital ~ Tulsa ~ 918-294-3627
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St. John Medical Center ~ Tulsa ~ 918-712-3377
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Tulsa Birth Center ~ Tulsa ~ 918-932-8164
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Special Delivery Midwifery Care ~ Tulsa ~ 918-477-9343
Local Funeral Homes, Crematories & Cemetery’s
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Cornerstone Funeral Home & Crematory
~ Muskogee ~ 918-913-4527
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Stumpff Funeral Home & Crematory
~ Bartlesville ~ 918-333-4300
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Biglow Funeral Directors ~ Tulsa ~ 918-592-2233
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Moore Southlawn Chapel ~ Tulsa ~ 918-663-2233
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Floral Haven Funeral Home & Cemetery
~ Broken Arrow ~ 918-505-7254
**Free cremation or burial, casket & graveside service for any child under the age of 12 years old**
(Does not include headstone or Chapel Service)
Farewell Ceremonies:
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Holistic Rituals for Life’s Farewells
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Share ~ Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support
~ Memorial Planning
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Local Grief Counseling/Mental health & Support:
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Tristesse Center ~ Pregnancy & Infant Loss
~ Tulsa ~ 918-587-1200
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Counseling & Psychotherapy ~ Tulsa ~ 918-403-8873
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Family and Children Services ~ Grief & Loss Counseling
*Available in Spanish*
~ Tulsa, Broken Arrow & Claremore ~ 918-587-9471
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Mend ~ Pregnancy & Infant Loss
~ Tulsa & Sand Springs ~ 918-694-4325
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Compassionate Friends ~ Mental Health Clinic
~ Support Group ~ Tulsa ~ 918-481-2181
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​Online Support Groups:
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S.O.B.B.S (Stories of Babies Born Still)
S.O.B.B.S ~ Miscarriage Matters
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Good Mourning Bears Inc.
(MEND) Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death
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Keepsakes:
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Pregnancy & Infant Loss Keepsakes ~ Online Store ~ Keepsakes
Angel Blankets ~ Charity ~ Donates blankets to families
Good Mourning Bears Inc. ~ Keepsakes in Facebook shop
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Good Mourning Bears Inc. ~ Donates Packages of Love to bereaved families
​Peyton’s Purpose ~ Charity ~ Donates packages to families
Sweet Grace Ministries ~ Donates Baskets to families
Simon’s Legacy ~ Donates Bear Packages to families
​Molly Bears ~ Make weighted bears for bereaved families
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How to stop Breast Milk after loss
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Breastfeeding Place
Lactation After Stillbirth and Infant Loss
Lactation Suppression
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Breast Milk Donation
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Helping Hands Milk Bank
888-274-5103
Oklahoma Mother's Milk Bank
OKC ~ 405-297-LOVE (5683)
Milk Share
National Milk Bank
866-522-MILK
Only The Breast
Buy, Sell & Donate
International Breast Milk Project
Prolacta Bioscience
~Find a Milk Bank
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Other Resources:
Stillbirthday
Now I lay me down to sleep Stillbirth Photography
Lacie J Photography ~ Tulsa ~ Stillborn
How to make Placenta Prints
NICU Helping Hands
~ Gowns for Angles & Donate a Wedding Gown
Angel Gowns By Michelle
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Book List for Adults:
On Coming Alive, Journaling Through Grief
~ 100 prompts to guide you from darkness to light
Written by Lexi Behrndt
Ghost Belly
Written by Elizabeth Heineman
Always Within
~Grieving the Loss of Your Infant
~ Book of Stories by bereaved families
I Will Carry You
~ The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy
Written by Angie Smith
About What Was Lost
~ 20 Writers on Miscarriage, Healing and Hope
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart
~ Surviving the Death of Your Baby
Written by Deborah Davis
Keeping the Faith
~ While Saying Goodbye
Written by Tameka Lovett Coulter
Expecting the Unexpected
~ An Honest Look at Miscarriage, Postpartum Depression, and Motherhood
Written by Amy Kim
Does God Change Their Diapers?
~ Coping with Pregnancy/Infant Loss
Written by Adrienne Davis Riggs
Stolen Angels
~ 25 Stories of Hope After Pregnancy or Infant Loss
(Compilation of stories from Bereaved parents)
Written by Sharee G. Moore
Empty Arms
~ Coping After Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death
Written by Sherokee Ilse
A Silent Sorrow
~ Pregnancy Loss - Guidance and Support for You and Your Family
Written by Ingrid Kohn and Perry-Lynn Moffitt
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Book List for Children:
The Baby Project
~ Ages 10-14
Written by Sarah Ellis
We Were Gonna Have a Baby, But We Had an Angel Instead
Written by Pat Schwiebert and Taylor Bills
Someone Came Before You
Written by Pat Schwiebert
My Baby Big Sister
A Book for Children Born Subsequent to a Pregnancy Loss
Written by Cathy Blanford
The Invisible String
Written by Patrice Karst
God Gave Us Heaven
Written by Lisa T. Bergren
Someone I Love Died
Written by Christine Harder Tangvald
I Miss You
~ A First Look at Death
Written by Pat Thomas
Where Are You?
Written by Laura Olivieri
Lifetimes
~ The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children
Written by Bryan Mellonie
Help Me Say Goodbye
~ Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies
(Art Therapy Book)
Written by Janis Silverman
The Goodbye Book
Written by Todd Parr
A Rainbow Baby Story
~The Rainbow After the Storm
Written by Crystal A Falk
Something Happened
~A Book for Children and Parents Who Have Experienced Pregnancy Loss
Written by Cathy Blanford
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​Song List:
Dancing in the Sky
By Dani & Lizzy
Thy Will Be Done
By Hillary Scott
Precious Child
By Karen Taylor Good
Beautiful Boy
By Coleen McMahon
Beautiful Girl
By Coleen McMahon
Held
By Natalie Grant
Heaven Needed You More
By Mikalene Ipson
In Loving Memory
By Katie Tow
I Look to You
Whitney Houston
Until Heaven
By Sarah Ann
Gone too Soon
By Daughtry
Birthday Cards to Heaven
Stacy Duvall
I'll See You Again
By Westlife
I Will Carry You
By Selah
Tears in Heaven
By Eric Clapton
Fly
By Celine Dion
Hug Him Once For Me
Erica McClure
Jealous of the Angels
By Donna Taggart
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If I missed anything that you think would be helpful to other families please send me a message below!
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